1. Wasting your time on a person not the worth.
Allotting time and effort to a person who just want to let "the- good- times- roll" in a not good memorable way. A person who sees life as a game and you are just one of the players he/ she wants to play with. That can be one of the biggest mistake in your life.2. Giving nth chances to persons not appreciating it.
Overpowering heart over mind sometimes causes this distress. Giving nth chances just looses the value of appreciation and preserving the true meaning of a relationship. Can be one of the biggest mistake in your life.3. Taken for granted one's worth.
Too busy securing and guarding your own for the sake of not experiencing hurt again. Or too busy spending your time with other people, (1) and forgetting a person's worth, sacrifice and effort. Then eventually realizing someone's worth when he/ she's gone. That can be one of the biggest mistake in your life.
4. Not being on someone's shoulder when he/ she needs to.
Just too lame for you not to be sensitive enough to know if a friend, beloved, someone so close to your heart hurt, and eventually being dumped with lists of you "not being there for him/ her when he/ she needs you" for you are too busy with (1) and (2). You just committed a mistake because you have (3).
5. Not giving your all in a fight.
There are two things in here,either you are afraid to or too relaxed because of too much confidence. Then eventually realizing that you have just slipped away the one last big shot of your life. Can be one of the biggest mistake of your life.6. Loosing yourself.
Focusing your life (1) or (2) then eventually have (3) and (5) realizing you were not yourself anymore. You just have wore a false disguise of your own. Being someone for others to accept is a NO NO. Can be one of the biggest mistakes in life.
7. Choosing to close a door.
Choosing to close your door because of the fear of opening the lock to new opportunities and seeing true happiness in life. Isolating oneself in a close door because of the unwanted freedom from the past is just so lame. Can be one of the mistakes you'd have in life.
And all of these boils down to one thing. Bottom line, it's our
8. DECISIONS
Deciding because off too much anger, depression, happiness and excitement would not help. As our Theology teacher keeps on reminding us, decide not when your feelings are too high or too low, decide when you are relaxed. Listen to your mind, feel your heart. And when both coincide, then that's the perfect time to decide on things. Never rush, much more not delay. Give allowances to everything and you'll just be good with it. Or if not, then your decision of (1), (2), (3), (4), (5), (6) and (7) would be the biggest regret you'd have in your life.
