Sunday, April 29, 2012

APRIL CELEBRANTS

Hello! Me is back from Samal. Like a week ago na sya. Wohoooooy! Had fun talaga. Oh yeah, its summer. Besides of feeling the summer beat, BUT also feeling the beat sa mga TUMMY! EATING TIIIME! And since itsLAST DAY OF APRIL, I would like to share the celeb of two of the most special people in my life who are celebrating there Birthdays this month.

FIRST, CLEA MARIEL CASINAO MALUNHAO.


APRIL 24,2012

The DEBUTANT ;)

We were so happy to be able to celebrate with her. She decided to meet with us at Sta. Ana Wharf by 3pm. Sadly, three of them were not able to come with us. By that day, super taranta me! YOU KNOW WHY? Kasi by 2pm pako naka alis sa aking destination (who-shall-not-be-named) then meet up with Kena! Arrived at the Mall by 2.15pm. Okay, at dahil walang pera ang aking partner, Kena. When we met, together with Reynell, BOOM! She doesn't have MONEY PALA. Okay, taranta mode for a while, kasi pano kami makakabuy ng gift! HAHAHA. So we did was go to this shop at the Second Floor ( who-shall-not-be-named-AGAIN) then got some cute stuffs and BOOM! Short aking money, kfly! AHAHAHAHA. So after, i am on my RUSH MODE kasi ng they are texting, na there is a bus waitong na daw. IPIT TAG TAXI! Nako :D So pagdating ko dun, dugay man pud diay ni si JOFER oyyy! As in, parang nasa bahay pa sya. After ilang minutes, nakarating na rin sya. And so, we waited sa BUS, had some chika-chika for a while then pagdating ng bus, PAUNAHAN TALAGAAAA! And so, yun. Malayong-layong biyahe. Had Karen as my seatmate. hahaha. Chikas, walang katapusang chikas. And so, on our way, dumaan kami ng Sasa, tas dun na sa Sasa Wharf, sa Barge then pagdating sa Samal, nag turn left sya. HAHAHA, Yun, nawala wala ang signal and hanggang sa nakarating na kami sa destinasyon, FERNANDEZ BEACH RESORT. PANGIT ANG NAME NU? THE PARTY'S GONNA START. Sorry for party rockin`



MELTED. It waited for us for an hour. How sweet :')
So pagdating namin, we had a liitle surprise lang gud, ALVIN, Clea's beastfriend and her Ship MERVILYN ay nandun na, settled everything. Clea thought na they are coming pa. HAHAHA, Sung HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU ♫♪ and as she blew her cake, I can see na she was really touched. Took some photos and started to fix our stuffs sa aming mini house for a day. After, we ate and ate.Had our night swimming sa parang madumi and super hot pool.It was okay though ,kasi we had fun. Played piko and tagaanay.We were like kids :)  



Celebrating with them. :)
After the Night Swimming, I think mga 10pm na yun, we settled for a while, had some chikas and everything, played cards, it was fun! :D Around  11pm, we decided na mag-shot na talaga. HAHAHA. Nasa condition na ang lahat, at first I was hesitant, pero nandito na eh, GORA na, kami-kami lang bitaw and we will be staying dun. So isa-isa na ang shot. HAHAHA. It was a tequila pa ha! First time, lagyan daw ng salt ang bibig o ung baso muna, diretsuhin pag inom then had a calamansi. FUNNY! Nung turn ko, Not expecting na ganun ang LASA! Mga bayooooot, grabe init sa lalamunan, lahi gyud sya. Then, yun we were tipsy, A BIT. Kaya ang suggestion namin, pampawala TIPSY : PLAY BOOKWORM! Promise, it is sooo effective, nagawork kasi ang brain makawala ng pagka hilo. Kaya, nung keribells na, START NA NAMAN. Until natapos kami at around 3am of April 25. WOAH! ANG INIT NG KATAWAN. Way talab ang mga electric fan all around the world. Ang scene kaya mahuwasan, si Clengy and Jof kay nagchika-chika, magkatabi matulog eh. Maila and Alv are busy sa scarpboook. Kar was busy sa sims. Me and  Merv are so busy taking pictures, kung dili sa amo ni Mervz, wa juy picture ang mga tao sa sulod sa among mini house. HAHAHA Joke. Nainggit ako sa boys!, Super mahinahon ang kanilang mga tulog! Woah! And so we slept at 4am. Pero dili jud kanang tulog jud. Close eyes ra gud to :D init eh

Me and Clengy. :)
The next day, first thing, INIT gihapon ahahha. So, we passed by the beach, and dun naligo ang iba. Made some chika2. Ang chika naabot hanggang hapon. Best FEELING EVER. KASI we talked about GRADE SCHOOL nd HIGH SCHOOL moments. Wew! Basta pag kasama mo sila, you'll feel stupid sa mga ginawa mo pero all along, you'll just laughed at it :) Kaya MASAYA! Left at 3am. PERO it didn't turned out all fine, DI MI OKAY NI ALV, SAMOK, mang erase ug picture sa akong phone. Zzzz, PERO CHOOKS TO GO NA. ALL IZ WELL! :)))))))))



SECOND, KEN AMEN JELO PADON BUDAC


April 26,2012


Surprise daw sya kunwari. HAHAHA
Kena, is sanay in celebrating her day sa cementery kasi timing na it was also her Lolo's anniversary kaya we never get to celebrate or even surprise in her day. And since, COLLEGE na kami and their course needs to have sumemr class, kaya we really are pursuing to celebrate her day :')


So this day, unplanned talaga to. Kasi ang mga tao may hungover pa from yesterday and tired, no tin good terms pa. Kaya I tried my best para ma quorum ang lahat sa dapat na gawing surprise for Kena. And so I was early at the mall. And i had Reynell as my kasabwat, while waiting sa kanila there, I WAS FOREVER ALONE AGAIN. hahaha. Mabuti at nag si datingan na sila.


Me and Kena. Lagi, MAGNDA KA NA! :D
So, Karen bought the Balloons and we bought a mini cake, para naman Kena can feel her day. Kaya nandun kami sa mini tunnel sa may Port Cafe kasi yun yung sabi ko kay Reynell, pero parang kami pa ung nasurprise kasi kami sge tingin sa taas, yun pala sa may Port Cafe talaga sila dumaan. Instead na sya ang masurprise kami ang nasurprise. HAHAHA. So yun, nahiya man si Kenian, unexpected siguro. Out of 6 kami, 3 nalng kaming naiwan nila Clea and Merv. AHAHAHA :D So we went nalng sa Mcdo para kumain, COURTESY OF KENA. HAPPY BIRTHDAY KENA AND CLEA! 


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Friday, April 27, 2012

FIRST LOVE. MOVE ON!

Okay, being attracted to the other sex is normal. INFATUATION comes in for the ones ages 13-18, I think. BUT according to www.diffen.com, INFATUATION means the state of being carried away by unreasoning desires. It is maybe for a reason of urgency, choices, experience or intensity. Infatuation is more defined as is a static process characterized by an unrealistic expectation of blissful passion without positive growth and development. From the meaning itself, INFATUATION means a lack of commitment or a  lack of loyalty. People do get into a relationship or more of like Mutual Understanding, for my case because there's a state of desire to a person. MORE OF LIKE CRUSH.

Honestly, being infatuated is the happiest moment of all especially to us, teenagers. You feel so protected, so secured, super HAPPY! You always think of that certain person EVERY TIME!, you get to be daydreaming of your plans when you see each other the next day, you are HAPPY and CONTENTED with your company to that person. In short, your world revolves to that person. And more likely, MORE EXPECTATIONS are expected at this stage. For you are expecting that HE/SHE is already the ONE. Di po yan malabong mangyari na maging kayo. BUT I think, all of the people experience the thing called INFATUATION. 

But when this INFATUATION comes to an end, everything does not come in place. Maybe only one was hurt, or the both parties. But most of the situations, only one is left alone, crying and being weak. ITS SO HARD TO ACCEPT THE FACT that you are not meant to be. MOVING ON is the hardest part. Diba nga, ang happiness mo lies on him/her.Nandun na yung ROUTINE na you always text, call or meet him/her which is super mahirap kapag mawala. Then, accepting the fact na WALA NA TALAGA. How hard kaya yuuuun? Pero ika nga nila "LET IT BE"

So as you are starting to MOVE ON, a process is indeed needed. Here are some of it na nagawa ko :

CRY AND CRY. Crying helps kasi nalalabas mo ang sama ng loob mo. Mga hinanakit sa loob. Atleast wala kang kinikmkim kasi nailabas mo by CRYING. Imagine, only humans are crying EMOTIONALLY, kaya its a one of a kind. When you cry, you show vulnerability because your vision is blurred.(Chaaar!) This allows someone who cares about you, to take care of you while you are in a weakened state. Diba, yan naman talaga ang essence ng Crying, to express and to remove the pain sa heart ♥ :)

BE WITH FRIENDS. Yan ang suggestion ng almost of all the people, be with friends. Kasi when you are with your friends, nakakawala ng STRESS. you get the smile in your face, the loudest laugh that you deserve and the fun in order to get away with the problems. Kaya, kahit na nagkaroon ka ng problema, nawala naman ito because of them, kahit in a day with them :)

REMINISCE THE PAST. Para sa akin ha, nakakatulong sya. Bakit? Kasi, the more mo inaalala ang mga nangyari with your loves before, nasasanay ka sa sakit. In short, nasasaktan ka ngunit MASASANAY KA. Di naman kasi maiwasan na maalala mo ang mga ganung bagay dahil nga may pinagsamahan na kayo, NAKATATAK na talaga yan. May times na mamimiss mo yan, ngunit maiintindihan mo, mafefeel mo ang pain in which YOU'LL GET USED TO.

TALK AND TALK. Talk and talk with your experience with him/her before. Either happy moments, sad moments, and what had happenbed kung bakit natapos ang relationship. The more you talk about it, the less the pain you'll get kasi nashe-share mo sa ibang tao ang experience mo. Sinasabi mo na, nakatulong sayo, makakatulong ka pa sa ibang tao dahil sa experience mo. Wapaaaak!

KEEP YOURSELF BUSY. Ito! Keep yourself busy para di mo sya maiisip. Madami namang things na pwedeng gawin. You can Read alot of books! Mas maganda yan kasi nagawork ang utak mo. Di sya waste of time kasi you are imagining things of what you read. Pwede ring, MAGLINIS KA NG BAHAY. Total wala kang ginagawa, instead na magmukmok ka, LINISIN NA ANG KWARTO o ang BUONG BAHAY! Saya pa! :D You can do charity works, madaming mga operations na ino-offer, gaan sa loob pa ang naidulot nito, nakatulong ka pa sa kapwa mo tao :)  Being busy, helps you ran away sa mga PAIN NA YAN! WALANG KWENTA. Acheche! :')

NEVER LISTEN TO MELLOW MUSICS. Wag na wag talagang makikinig sa mga mellow musics, lalo na about Love songs. SUS! MUHILAK RA KA. Instead, listen to Reggae songs, it soothes the heart. Or to Party music, it uplifts the mind. Just be happy and forget to RELATE to those kinds of sounds. Mawawala lang rin yan. That's part of moving on :)

EAT. EAT more of the SWEETS! Kasi nga, sabi nila nakakataas ng hormones ang sweets, especially CHOCOLATES  ♥ Nom-nom pa :) And EAT alot kasi nakakawala ng DEPRESSION and STRESS. GIVE YOURSELF HAPPINESS. Stressors sila, PABAYAAN! HAHAHA. Bahala na siya ang Bitter, basta ikaw hindi. Kumakain sya ng more of AMPALAYA eh, kasi nga Vegetarian sya :D

NEVER STALK. Marami ng sources ngayon! HELLO FACEBOOK! You can try seeking his/.her profile PERO most probably sana ONCE lang. Then after try not to look into his/her PROFILE! Ikaw ra'y luoy. If EMO2 sya, mabuti kasi DI LANG IKAW ang nakakamiss kundi sya rin. NGUNIT! Kapag nakikita mong MASAYA syaa. Mga Manaaaang! MOVE ON! Di Worth it! May pa sya happy happy ikaw diha, thinking of that person, crying pa! BE HAPPY UY! BE BUDOY! ;)

BE HAPPY, BE BLESSED. Why? Kasi nangyari sayo yan.LALO NA'T FIRST MO? Huuuy, BE BLESSED! Bakit? Kasi, God gave you a chance to be able to experience that. GOOD SIGN NA YAN! (if you know what I mean :P) And be blessed kasi you may be heartbroken pero you will really know the REAL AND TRUE FRIENDS around. Jan mo makikita kung sinu-sino sila! and you'll just be grateful kasi may nawala nga, pero madami namang nagmamahal sayo. KAYA KERIBELLS! :)

BOND WITH YOUR FAMILY! :') Kasi, aminin natin. Nagkaroon tayo ng lalabs kaya nalalayo tayo sa ating pamilya. Each one of us, makakasabi na totoo to. This is the time para makabawi ka. Pwede ring maging open ka sa recent na nangyari sayo. That will be more good kasi wala kang itinatago sa kanila, mas gagaan pa ang loob mo. NOTHING BEATS THE BOND OF A FAMILY PA RIN UY! :)

PRAY! Lastly, PRAY. Pray na sana you'll be okay, na kayanin mo ang nangyari sayo. Na God will heal your heart and the person's heart that you love. Na you will be okay. Ask his guidance and  assistance as you move on, as you walk alone. Never regret, never hesitate and never complain kay God kung bakit nangyari sayo yun. Instead BE THANKFUL! Kasi God gave someone na will help you become a more of the mature person. Also, ask him that THINGS WILL TURN OUT JUST FINE :) Di naman end of the world pag nawala sya, kasi you have God, who is truly your FIRST LOVE ♥.
“It happens to everyone as they grow up. You find out who you are and what you want, and then you realize that people you've known forever don't see things the way you do. So you keep the wonderful memories, but find yourself moving on.”  -Nicholas Sparks ♥